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Ah, I forgot a very important thing. Twenty-two years ago today, I underwent heart surgery to extend my life expectancy far beyond 21, which was what I was born with. Thank you to Dr. Cooley and the other doctors who fixed my heart for me. I wear this scar joyfully and gratefully, as an integral part of who I am.

Date: 2003-10-12 08:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eleanor.livejournal.com
Wow, that's very cool. I'm very glad the surgery worked and glad to have the opportunity to know you.

Date: 2003-10-12 10:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
Thank you. Me too, on both accounts!

Date: 2003-10-12 09:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chaptal.livejournal.com
Happy anniversary. Doctors do amazing miracles everyday.

Date: 2003-10-12 10:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
I'm constantly astonished, and grateful for the work they do.

Date: 2003-10-12 10:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Wow! Thanks for sharing that. Also, meeting Dr. Cooley is definitely a celebrity sighting--even if one that one might otherwise forego :).

Date: 2003-10-12 10:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
I had no idea how lucky I was at the time (I was three, after all), but in hindsight, I realize that it was a big deal for him to have worked on my surgery. My dad recently loaned me a biography of Dr. Cooley; I've flipped through it and can't believe all of the innovations he's responsible for.

Date: 2003-10-12 10:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Oh, and happy anniversary!

Date: 2003-10-12 10:30 am (UTC)

Date: 2003-10-12 10:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lolliejean.livejournal.com
What a wonderful thing to celebrate! Oh and thank you for the postcard, it was a lovely surprise to find in the mail. : )

Date: 2003-10-12 10:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
You're welcome!

Date: 2003-10-12 10:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nickelchief.livejournal.com
Wow, that's really something. And a great day to celebrate, almost like having another birthday.

Thanks doctor!

Date: 2003-10-12 10:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
I like that idea. I should buy myself a present today. :)

from Twin Peaks

Date: 2003-10-12 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nickelchief.livejournal.com
"Harry, I'm gonna let you in on a little secret.  Every day, once a day, give yourself a little present.  Don't plan it, don't wait for it, just . . . let it happen.  Could be a new shirt at the men's store, a catnap in your office chair, or two cups of good, hot, black coffee."

- Special Agent Dale Cooper

Re: from Twin Peaks

Date: 2003-10-12 11:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
Haha! That's a good quote, though from an odd source.

And now I have Julee Cruise in my head, singing "Into The Night." I was too young to understand the show at the time, but I loved the soundtrack, and got it for Christmas one year. It used to give me nightmares, that music, but I loved it anyway.

Date: 2003-10-12 11:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daisydumont.livejournal.com
thank you for letting us share in your anniversary with you. that's a scar i'd be glad to wear, too.

Date: 2003-10-12 11:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
You're welcome! It's funny, sometimes I try to imagine my body without the scar (which wraps around from the middle of my back to my left breast), and it just wouldn't be my body. I've had it for most of my life, and I've grown to love it.

Date: 2003-10-12 11:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roadnotes.livejournal.com
Happy anniversary!

Date: 2003-10-12 11:39 am (UTC)

Date: 2003-10-12 11:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] coyotegoth.livejournal.com
Glad you're around, and staying that way :)

Date: 2003-10-12 11:40 am (UTC)

Date: 2003-10-12 11:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] genders.livejournal.com
Happy anniversary indeed!

Date: 2003-10-12 12:12 pm (UTC)

Date: 2003-10-12 12:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] holyoutlaw.livejournal.com
Yet another one...

Happy anniversary! I had to check your user profile and calculate how old you were and how old you are. Wow!

My father (and most of his brothers) died shortly after turning 60. I wonder if I'll find those years an especial gift. Hah!

Date: 2003-10-12 12:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
Yes, I was a wee little one back then. (Though I often feel like a wee little one now, too.)

When they reach you, I hope that the years after 60 treat you to good health and longevity.

Date: 2003-10-12 02:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sandstar.livejournal.com
Happy Anniversary!

And what an awesome surgeon to share it with!

I remember the first time I saw open-heart surgery - 31st October 1990. I was in my first semester of RN school, and since I was already an LVN, the surgeon and OR nurses were relatively certain that I wouldn't faint watching ;)

The surgeon loved what he was doing. It was electric watching someone who enjoyed his life's work so much. He asked that I be put at the head of the table, as close as possible. When the patient's chest was opened and the rib spreaders applied, he said, "Watch this." He poured a solution of potassium chloride and stopped the patient's heart - then the perfusion machine started, and it was a [relatively] bloodless procedure.

I'm simplifying things of course, but it was *amazing*. To see the source of life being stopped and started - incredible.

I can only imagine how hard it was on your parents - do they ever talk about it? I'd be a nervous wreck, nurse or no nurse ;) What was it like for you - your memories of your recovery and illness?

Yes, full of questions I am ;) I love to read stories of recoveries, where people go on to live full lives after an illness and/or injury.

And I thank you for your postcard I received this week also :)[You have beautiful handwriting!]

Sandi*

Date: 2003-10-12 04:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sun-set-bravely.livejournal.com
I love the questions! It's fascinating to hear about a similar procedure from the other side.

Because I was so young, I don't remember anything without the aid of pictures from the time. The surgery was done at the Texas Children's Hospital, and I have a picture of me, post-surgery, with the life-size Big Bird sculpture in the lobby. I vaguely remember pulling a red wagon down the hallway a few days after the surgery, and my mom tells me that I refused all pain-killers afterwards.

My parents have never really talked about it much, but I can only imagine how scary it must have been for them. I don't know the full story of how the condition (PDA) was discovered, or what they thought before I went in for surgery. It seems like it was a no-brainer: if I had the surgery, I'd live a normal life; if I didn't, I'd probably die before 21. But I'm sure that the easy decision didn't make the process any easier.

I'm glad that you enjoyed the postcard!

Date: 2003-10-12 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] paularubia.livejournal.com
Wow - Dr. Cooley himself.

Only the best!

Seems like you've done very well so far.

Keep it up!

:-)

Date: 2003-10-13 05:56 am (UTC)

Date: 2003-10-13 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com
that is indeed an amazing and lovely story.
happy anniversary!
=^_~=paul

Date: 2003-10-13 09:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com
yvw
=^_~=paul
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