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So I have this digital camera, and I uploaded the pictures to my computer and everything, and it still takes me a while to put up the pictures from the excellent weekend with [livejournal.com profile] bobbydrake007, [livejournal.com profile] freak1c, and [livejournal.com profile] mikecheck. My deepest apologies. We had lots of fun. Even though we couldn't find a place to shake our hawt asses. Oh well. To be truthfully honest, I'd take a 3 a.m. diner meal with those boys over a $25-cover-crack-whore-club any day.

I am busy and thinking all over the place recently. CG moved in with me at the beginning of April, and we are adjusting to that change. It just occurs to me that I'm not sure I've mentioned this fact on LJ yet. At different times, it seems like either a) the biggest step in our relationship that we've taken in a while, or b) a half-step from what we've been living for a few years. This is all so complicated, this life and love stuff. Anyone have any good stories about their first experience living with their significant other? They can be happy or sad; I'm just looking for how it went down with other people.

The script is up and running again, and I've got some great inspiration on several fronts. Now, if I can just get the words out on paper. Hmmm...

I wanna lover who won't drive me crazy...

Date: 2003-04-09 12:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] princessinabox.livejournal.com
Well, I'm currently going through the same experiment for my first time and what I've found is that it's some times a lot harder than it seems it will be. There's no going back to your own place and sitting there like a slob, eating spoons and spoons of cookie dough and farting as loud as you want. You think it will be similar to what the relationship was like before, but all of a sudden you have to talk about things like toilet paper and groceries and when you're going to vaccum the carpet. It's hard work not to get uptight about little things, and you have to learn to let the toilet seat issue not get in the way of the relationship. At some point I think it's important to move in with your significant other, at least if you think you're going to move on to other relationship stages. You do find out things about the other person that you never would have known without living with them.

It's hard work sometimes, but there are also those moments that can become really rewarding and special, moments that you probably wouldn't have with each other if you weren't living together. For instance, at the moment I'm trying to dye my hair with henna and have a plastic bag tied around my head and look hilarious. David wouldn't ever see this if we weren't living together but because we are it's become one of those really funny moments.

I don't know if any of this helps, but good luck!

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